1.07.2011

Meet David Oh



A number of you have expressed interest in learning more about David Oh, who I am campaigning for for City Council at Large. Well, here's two opportunities.

1. David will be officially announcing his candidacy on Tuesday, January 11, at noon at the National Constitution Center at 525 Arch Street. He will also be holding a $50 per person fundraiser that evening at 5:30 at Zarwin Baum on the 13th Floor of 1818 Market Street. You can contact Eunice Lee at elee (at) zarwin.com or 215 561-2000 for more information on these events.

2. If you want to meet with David and learn more about how he plans to serve in City Council, please click here to complete the three-question survey (I promise it will take you two minutes or less), so I have a sense of when you might be free and what issues are important to you. Pending interest and timing, I'll work with David to figure out a time between now and the elections that we can have some mini-gatherings to discuss his campaign.

I encourage you to take the time to get to know David. He is a true public servant, and hopefully after you meet him you will want to vote for and support him in his attempt to be a City Councilperson.

1.06.2011

In Spite of Me


While I was in California earlier this month, I got a chance to share at the church where I became a Christian. As I contemplated what it was that I wanted to share about my faith journey, it occurred to me that many of my biggest life decisions were not made with the best of intentions, and yet God was still able to work for and through me:

* I only first started to go to church regularly in the first place as a teenager not as much because of any deep spiritual longing but rather because there were a lot of cute girls I could socialize with in the youth group.

* I chose Penn during my senior year in high school largely because I felt Wharton would maximize my future status and earning potential.

* My first summer in college, I decided to go to a "study tour" in Taiwan that was so infamous for hooking up that everyone called it "Love Boat."

Again, not the noblest of motives. But, God made the best of me: my decisions to become a Christian and to move to the East Coast have radically transformed the course of my life, and even my summer in Taiwan was redeemed for His glory as I was able to find five other believers with whom I could witness of being in relationship with Jesus Christ amidst the prevailing culture.

This is not to say we should take life decisions lightly because God can redeem our poor choices: decision-making is woefully undercovered as a topic for people who seek to live out their Christian lives, and we can go awfully astray, with disastrous consequences, if we are cavalier in our choices. My point is rather to express that where and who I am today is due more to God's merciful hand than anything commendable in me. He works in mysterious ways, and thinking back on how He worked in spite of me further girds me to trust Him all the more into the future.


1.03.2011

Lazy Linking, 34th in an Occasional Series


Good stuff on the Internets:

* Didn't like the headline - "Is West Philly the next Center City?" - but did enjoy how the article hit all of my neighborhood's salient points - the Vladimir Sled murder, eds and meds, Penn Alexander, and so forth.

* Here's another link to Philadelphia Magazine - any of us who remember Allen Iverson holding court late at night on City Line Avenue aren't surprised to hear TGI Friday's is a favorite haunt for him in Turkey.

* Whoa, Philly #2 on Zillow's "best performing cities of the decade" index, just behind DC and right ahead of Arlington.

* Can I switch lives with Guy Kawasaki?

* OK, one more "Philly rocks, New York sucks" link - and who doesn't love how much mileage this Hitler meme has gotten?

* How about a Venn diagram of people who touch your junk.

* These are the sorts of things sports-loving governors can say when they are on their way out of office.

* Would I let Jada find her way home by SEPTA from downtown by herself when she is 9? Ask me in three years.

1.02.2011

2010 Car Usage


I had so much fun reporting on car trips in 2009 that I decided to do it again for 2010. For the year, I took 80 trips totaling 252 legs, plus was a passenger on 58 other legs, for a total of 310 legs, or less than one a day. (Remember that a leg is any time I go from Point A to Point B, so if I take the kids to the zoo and gas up on the way, that's three legs driven; or if my friend gives me a ride home from the ballgame and we stop by his rental to check on something before dropping me off, that's two legs ridden.)

This doesn't count out-of-town trips. Not surprisingly, I was well over one a day in car-oriented places like the Bay Area and the Jersey Shore, and didn't even step foot in a car when I went to places like Baltimore, Harrisburg, DC, and Manhattan.

You can see from the monthly chart above that there were two spikes up: March and June. I don't quite remember why March was so car-intensive - it was when Amy was taking night classes, so I would do double school drop-off and pick-up one day a week, but that was true in January, February, and April, as well. We must have gone to Please Touch Museum a lot that month. June was when Amy sprained her ankle, so there was more shuttling via automobile that month.

Tracking and then monitoring car trips is surely a good way to be mindful of how much you drive. I encourage you to do the same. But you may not find as much pleasure as I do in nerdily making charts to display the results.

12.31.2010

Huang Family Newsletter, December 2010


December 2010 was quite a blur. Jada had her first parent/teacher conference and we were pleased to learn she enjoys reading and writing. She loves her friends, too: December brought an ice skating birthday party and a Scooby Doo birthday party. We hit downtown three weekends in a row to see the shows, shop, and eat, and Amy took them to her parents' church for a Christmas musical. On Christmas morning, the kids helped out at a breakfast for the homeless at our church, and then we took them to their grandparents' house out in the 'burbs where they tried out their new scooters. Speaking of the 'burbs, we also had a really nice end-of-year get-together with our church small group, the kids reveling in indoor and outdoor play time and the adults enjoying uninterrupted grown-up conversation.

12.29.2010

Social Network


I was a late adopter to IM and then promptly fell off the wagon a few years later. But there was a time I was a relatively frequent user, mostly to communicate to co-workers but every once in a while to chat with a long lost friend. When we first started to grasp IM's potential in the office, my work partner and I thought it potentially quite useful to be able to toss a question or comment out there into the sea of friends and colleagues on our buddy lists and get answers back, in some cases almost instantaneously. We imagined how productive - and fun - our lives would be if we could have instant and virtual access to everyone we knew, whether for professional or personal purposes.

Fast forward to the present, and that's kind of like what Facebook is like. Even for someone like me who isn't "on" Facebook all the time - I check in at discrete moments rather than following the stream in real-time - it is neat to have people from different eras of my life chime in on my stuff, and to have a peek into what's going on with them. Just to give one small example, after my post on being confused about Christmas got posted to my Facebook page, four people chimed in - two of my fellow board members at The Enterprise Center, a fellow congregant from Woodland, and an old friend from my South Bay Taiwanese Youth days in San Jose - while two others "liked" the post, a friend from my undergrad days and a friend from my grad days. The wisdom and kindness I took in from these "touches" was made all the more poignant by the diversity of perspectives represented.

In a status-leveling world in which ordinary people can seem like celebs (thanks to reality TV and Twitter) and celebs can seem like ordinary people (again, thanks to reality TV and Twitter), social networks such as Facebook can be fantastically delicious levelers of status. Not to say we don't transfer our cliquiness to social media. But when a whole range of people from different walks of life and different reference points in your world can comment on your musings, your photos of your kids, your latest gourmet food conquest, or your take on the latest hoo-haw in Washington, I think there's something quite egalitarian about that.

Not to say we all share the same likes or opinions; far from it. But I'm not sure how readily we'd poke in on each others' life stream in the flesh, or even consider different people we know "friends" or "connections," and yet through the magic of sites like Facebook and LinkedIn we not only make a link with one another but have the walls significantly lowered and the ice significantly broken in terms of being able to share a kind word, lament about some political travesty, or exult together over a heart-stopping sports triumph.

If everyone I knew was in one big room, I'm not sure we would circulate or share so easily. And I never got the sense that IM was that way, either. And yet I find almost weekly that I am encouraged by some nifty little exchange with a distant friend, often via Facebook. It makes the world, daunting and scattered as it is, seem a little cozier.

12.27.2010

Lazy Linking, 33rd in an Occasional Series


What I liked lately on the Internets:

* Philly beats New York again, this time in percentage of neighborhoods that are more walkable than the norm. [Hat tip: Creative Class.]

* Even the ruthless capitalists have gone green. The renovation of Joe's Cafe in Wharton's Steinberg-Dietrich Hall qualified for LEED Gold status. [Hat tip: U City Off the Grid.]

* Giving new meaning to the phrase, "talking sh*t." I'd make more jokes, but this is a deadly serious topic and deserves straight talk, since someone in the world dies every 18 seconds as a result of bad sanitation, mostly children under five, and what is needed is frank discussions about how to prevent these largely preventable tragedies. (As a bonus, the report contains a glossary so you know how to say it in dozens of languages.)

* What if your New Year's resolution wasn't about yourself but rather about what you can do for others? That's the premise behind Chaz Howard's inspired idea.

12.26.2010

A Second Chance at Christmas, and Christmas at Second Chance


Not long after the kids got to plow through their pile of gifts, I was hauling them out the door to church, where we were to help serve at Second Chance Mission's annual Christmas breakfast for the homeless and hungry. The experience was flush with teaching moments:

* It was good to break up the steady stream of getting and then playing with new toys with something that was a little more outward focused.

* Jada didn't recognize any of the men lined up outside as we approached the church. It expanded her mind a little to see that they are welcome, too.

* There were only two other kids there and the place was pretty crowded, so it wasn't looking like the kids were going to have much fun. But I found a young couple handing out plates at the front of the line and stationed Aaron and Jada with them, and soon enough, they were in the mix, helping distribute utensils and napkins.

* The breakfast included many worship elements, to the point that it was less a breakfast with stuff going on up front as it was a service that happened to be serving food. I was asked to give a word and chose Isaiah 61, closing the chapter simply by saying, "I'm no theologian, but from reading that I can tell you that God is a God of second chances." One man came up to me and gravely told me that, though he wasn't religious, that word really touched him.

Soon enough, the kids and I were off and heading home. I think they had fun, but more importantly, I think they got to see a more well-rounded picture of our church, of what it means to serve, and of what Christmas is all about.

12.25.2010

Confused about Christmas


Not sure where this thought is going, so bear with me. Here we are, on the morning of Christmas, and I still have no idea what to make of this whole holiday thing. Everyone around me has their traditions, some religious and some secular, and I'm still trying to figure out how this works. You would think this would be easier, given that I'm a Bible-believing Christian, and in this country the overwhelming majority of people celebrate the Christian holiday of Christmas. I frown when we Christians complain about how life hard has become for us in these more ecumenical, sensitive, and thoughtful times; it comes off sounding like the sour grapes of someone who is used to getting his way and now has to share with others and acts grumpy and entitled about it.

And yet, what has Christmas in this country become, but a secularized, frenzied, materialistic testament to anything but the baby whose birth the date is supposed to celebrate? Someone asked me earlier this month how things were going so far, and I didn't quite get what she was saying, so she elaborated: "You're a Christian, right? So you're going to do Santa and a tree and gifts, right? So how's all that going?" This thoughtful person was trying to be sensitive about holiday customs, presuming without wanting to be presumptuous about what my particular customs were. But I felt so much dissonance in that moment, for what do Santa and a tree and gifts have to do with being a Christian? We did Santa and a tree and gifts in my childhood, and I did not grow up a Christian. So those things, while they may be part of the typical Christian tradition in this country, do not connote for me what this month is about.

Ever seeking fun and free things to do with the kids, the holiday season has been a bonanza of to-do's, with light shows downtown, special store displays, and what not. But, and maybe again this is the frugal side of me, the gift part of Christmas often leaves me feeling conflicted. Here my kids can't even take care of the toys they have, as evidenced by them leaving them strewn all over the floor instead of in one of the dozens of bins we have provided for them, and now we will be pouring countless more toys upon their heads? Getting a new toy, my kids fawn all over it; two, and they are delirious with happiness. But getting ten just makes them spoiled and ungrateful and cluttered.

Bah humbug, I hear you thinking. Maybe I shouldn't muse so much, and just enjoy what's around me to enjoy, which I understand is a lot. But I guess I am just expressing not a little dissonance in the head this holiday season, and perhaps you are feeling some too. The holidays are hard for many, and I guess this is part of how they're hard for me: I rejoice in the baby whose birth was the ultimate game-changer in this epic battle for souls, but I struggle to see how that event and my acknowledgment of it fits into this thing we call December.

I believe in a faith that is meant to be shared. But it's tricky to know how to share it in an atmosphere in which it is simultaneously the majority opinion on one level, completely co-opted and sanitized and morphed into nothingness on another level, and frowned upon as antithetical to being able to have and respect separate and different beliefs at still another level. Later this morning, our church is sponsoring a service project that I plan to bring my kids to; who knows what date Jesus was born on, and what Christians are to make of December 25th in the United States circa 2010, but hanging out with and helping others in our neighborhood may well be a good habit to build.

12.24.2010

The Year in Photos


I'm not much of a contributor to the billions of photos uploaded on Facebook every month. But I do have an album for every year I've been a member. Notice the trend in the number of photos in each album:

2005 - 22
2006 - 39
2007 - 91
2008 - 46
2009 - 124
2010 - 190

Big blip up when we got Aaron, and a huge blip the past two years. We've only been smartphone owners since July, so it can't just be ease of snapping and posting.

I think it's that we've just had a ton of fun lately. This calendar year brought West Coast cousins to the East Coast for three consecutive weekends of fun, plus our usual Ocean City jaunt, two trips to California, and countless excursions downtown. As I filled up this year's album yesterday, I couldn't help but be thankful for all we did, that it would take 190 photos to tell the whole story.

I guess a big piece of this is also that our kids are just so gosh darn cute, too!

12.23.2010

On the Folly of Rewarding A While Hoping for B


Out of all the reading I did in my undergraduate classes, there’s one piece that stands out: Steven Kerr’s “On the Folly of Rewarding A While Hoping for B.” Written in 1975, its plain articulation of the mismatches between what we want versus what we reward – whether CEO’s who we hope will do long-term good with their companies but who are held accountable for quarterly results, or athletes who we hope take one for the team but who are compensated according to individual stats – shattered the innocence of my idealistic teenage self. Where is the hope, then, of getting what we really want out of others if our entire incentive structure is wrong?

The article continues to flavor my outlook as an urban Christian. Do politicians want to do best by their jurisdictions and residents, or do they want to maximize their chances of getting reelected, even if it means torching those jurisdictions and immobilizing those residents? Do non-profit leaders really desire to work their way out of a job (i.e. by eliminating once and for all the problem their organization is built to address) or do they seek instead to entrench that problem so as to guarantee the viability of their entity? And, shining the light back onto myself and my co-workers, do we consultants seek to add maximum value to our clients, or do we create dependency relationships such that we guarantee repeat work from them?

It is easy to tsk-tsk such behavior, except that we ourselves do it all the time, and not only do we not feel guilty, but we feel good about it. We make choices to move to better school districts so that our kids will get a good education, instead of sticking around to take part in the positive change that our current districts need for the benefit of all young families, most of all those who don’t have the upward mobility to be able to move around. Or we change churches in search of better programming, instead of banding together to be part of a potential solution at our current location. Or we start driving more again once gas prices sag or the new highway interchange gets built, opting for economy and convenience and forgetting all we’ve heard about the unpaid costliness to the environment of each additional car trip. These are all rational, even intelligent or noble choices. And yet we all would hope for B from others even as we choose A for ourselves.

What will it take to effect true change? Are some people just so incredibly altruistic that they will suffer personal hardship to do the right thing, and to call others to the same? Does it take trading short-term conveniences for long-term glory? Do we use big government to regulate our way to the right behavior? If these are the only approaches, I am left decidedly pessimistic and fearful.

But what if there were a critical mass of people who were not living for this world? Who had a value system that was all about being emptied out for others, about seeking justice and loving mercy and walking humbly with their God? Who were able to forego both immediate gratification for self and artificial praise from others, because they believed that their deeds were helping them store up treasure in the life to come?

Are not people who are wired this way those that can truly be businesspeople who run their operations for maximum community benefit and not just financial profit? Politicians who seek the good of their jurisdictions and their residents, and are not just looking out for the next election? Non-profit leaders whose greatest triumph isn’t institutionalizing the status quo that justifies the existence of their organization and their salary, but fundamentally fixing the broken parts of that status quo?

The Bible states that if we have believed in the resurrection for this life alone, we are of most men to be pitied, so there is a sense in which being a true believer means doing things that aren’t always appreciated or understood. And yet the Bible also states the importance of a good name, and celebrates and does not denigrate being a person with a good reputation. I think gets at a little of that apparent contradiction. This isn’t our final destination, there are no final treasures here, this isn’t even the body we’re stuck with. We’re free, then, not to not care about the very real issues and hurts and injustices and complications of this world, but to care about them in ways that others cannot. It should make us peculiar, even to the point of being thought of as a little loony; but it should also make us a little bit admirable, for being able to really give ourselves, in ways that are more authentic and vigorous and pure than if we didn’t have this particular worldview.

Alas, I can speak for myself that I am far less committed, far less genuine, and far less selfless than many others I know, who do not share what I claim as my belief system and yet who run circles around me in terms of their service and devotion and care and sacrifice. It is no wonder more do not believe in the Christian narrative that there is a life to come, for they do not see those who have bought into that narrative living as if it were true. Lord, work in us that we might trade in our shallow and worldly desires for grander and loftier ones; it is folly to hope for A while rewarding B, but it is no folly to believe in future glory and to order our present lives in response.

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