Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "21 Lessons for the 21st Century," by Yuval Noah Harari.
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Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "21 Lessons for the 21st Century," by Yuval Noah Harari.
Read what you will into today's post, I am not trying to grind a particular political ax. I do want to call out that, for all the talk about elevating the truth, most of us don't actually want the truth, at least enough to pay the cost associated with it.
What do I mean? On shallow issues, we prefer to have our ears tickled than to have to absorb something less pleasant or more complicated. Honestly, folks, when you ask your significant other, "how do I look," do you want constructive criticism that will improve your aesthetic or do you just want them to say "marvelous!"?
On another level, we are invested in our opinions, so we are inclined to believe things that reinforce those opinions and avoid or discount things that challenge them. Whether this is superficial things like sports or music, or deeper things like politics and economics, when was the last time you honestly kept an open mind about something, kept your mouth shut when someone offered a contrary thought, and actually conceded the point and even changed your mind?
In these cases, the truth truly is better for you, because it enhances your worldview or maybe even gets you to turn around when you were previously hurtling towards danger. Yet, we actively reject the truth in order to soothe our need to be affirmed that what we now believe is correct and doesn't need to be adjusted.
As a husband, parent, manager, and civic leader, I've tried very hard to lean into all that goes into actively seeking the truth. Sometimes I have to bite my tongue and take deep breaths in order to keep my mouth shut and my ears open. Sometimes I have to scold myself for being rigid in my thinking in order to dislodge myself towards changing my attitude, my opinion, and my actions. Even when I know it's for the best, it can be a bitter pill to swallow even as I know the pill is good for me.
What about you? When did you last seek out, listen to, and affirm an opposing perspective? When did you, even when the setting gave you room to have the last word, just kept your mouth shut and said thanks? When could you honestly say you were willing to pay the full price for hearing and receiving the truth? It takes significant effort for me, and I don't always put in that effort, even when I know it's the right thing to do and I want to be known as being truth-seeking and open-minded. The truth, it seems, is more elusive, and our commitment to it far weaker, than we'd like to admit.
Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Becoming Dr. Seuss: Theodor Geisel and the Making of an American Imagination," by Brian Jay Jones.
Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Live Your Best Life: 219 Science-based Reasons to Rethink Your Daily Routine," by Stuart Farrimond.
Noisy workplaces are hard to concentrate in, but complete silence can stifle thought for many. In fact, some background noise, be it the tick of a clock, distant chatter, or musical murmurings from the radio seem to activate the “watching” brain network and help us stay focused. Around 50 decibels, the sound of rainfall, seems to be the sweet spot for most of us. Extroverted people tend to thrive in noisier places, whereas more reflective types may founder in such an environment. Noise-canceling headphones can be useful—although the downside is you may lose out on valuable interaction with colleagues. In a shared workspace, decisions about noise and tidiness levels invariably require compromise.
Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Love is an Ex-Country: A Memoir," by Randa Jarrar.
The following weekend, my mother saw the navel ring as I was coming up the stairs from the basement. She shouted at me, asked if I was trying to damage my body. It was strange for her to ask this, since she had stood by while my father had beaten my body so many times. I said to her, as calmly as I could, “It’s my body.”
Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Just As I Am," by Cicely Tyson.
I couldn’t believe the same actress had played both the young woman and the elder one, but Deloris insisted she had. I stared at my sister, and then back at the screen, marveling at Ms. Tyson’s mastery of her craft, the brilliance with which she had transformed herself. It planted in me a seed that immediately took root. She was the manifestation of excellence and artistry, a dark-skinned, thick-lipped woman who truly mirrored me. I can pinpoint the exact moment when my life opened up, and it was there, in front of that set, that mine did. With one mesmerizing performance, with one gorgeously poignant rendering of her character, Ms. Tyson gave me permission to dream. (Viola Davis)
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Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Moby Dick," by Herman Melville. Again, I always go to sea as a sailor, bec...