12.28.2018

Does the Universe Owe Us Anything

I was recently lamenting with a friend how easily I fall apart when things don't go my way.  He gently and graciously reminded me that "the universe doesn't care about fairness."  Because that's how the meltdown goes, you know?  Of course it is the day that the kids are sick and the big meeting got moved up at the last minute that SEPTA is running late.  Why, universe...why me and why now?

As parents, it's important to instill in our kids a sense of fairness.  We are also pre-disposed to guard our little ones from getting overwhelmed.  So when someone is having a bad day, we ease up on them or we do something nice for them.

Ah, but the universe isn't above piling it on just when we feel we can least afford to bear it.  Part of the rude awakening of becoming an adult is coming to this realization.  Yet how many times have we resisted this, whining "it's not fair" or falling apart long past when we should have grown beyond such childish thinking?  Or how many times have we rolled our eyes at someone younger than us who is acting this way, thinking they ought to realize by now that the universe doesn't owe us anything.


12.26.2018

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Here are a couple of excerpts from a book I recently read, "Wonder," by R.J. Palacio:



AUGUST

I’m not sure why, but all of a sudden I started to cry.

Mom put the book down and wrapped her arms around me. She didn’t seem surprised that I was crying. “It’s okay,” she whispered in my ear. “It’ll be okay.” 

“I’m sorry,” I said between sniffles. 

“Shh,” she said, wiping my tears with the back of her hand. “You have nothing to be sorry about.…” 

“Why do I have to be so ugly, Mommy?” I whispered. 

“No, baby, you’re not …” 

“I know I am.” 

She kissed me all over my face. She kissed my eyes that came down too far. She kissed my cheeks that looked punched in. She kissed my tortoise mouth. 

She said soft words that I know were meant to help me, but words can’t change my face.

OLIVIA

I wonder how many nights she’s stood outside his door. And I wonder if she’s ever stood outside my door like that.



12.21.2018

Context in Consulting


Image result for consultingThe finals are scored and the grades are posted, so that puts a wrap on my fall class at Penn, Quantitative Tools for Consulting.  This was my seventh year teaching the course, my second in the fall (the first five were during the summer), and my first while also juggling School Board.  So rest assured that my schedule will not miss the three hours of class every Saturday, plus prep, communications, and grading.

But I love teaching, and so a bigger part of me will miss the rhythm of classroom discussions, reading student tweets, and grading homeworks.   I particularly enjoy seeing the evolution in students from not knowing something to getting the hang of it to mastering it.  It looks different with different students and across different years, but it never gets old.



12.18.2018

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Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Martin Luther: The Man Who Rediscovered God and Changed the World," by Eric Metaxas:




When he made it clear that he feared God’s judgment more than the judgment of the powerful figures in that room, he electrified the world. How dare anyone, much less a mere monk, imply there could be any difference between them? Since time immemorial, such men had spoken for God and for the state. But Luther defied them, humbly but boldly, in a watershed moment in world history. Those of us in the West have lived on the far side of it ever since. 

What followed ended up scrambling the landscape of Western culture so dramatically that it’s hardly recognizable from what it was before. Luther was the unwitting harbinger of a new world in which the well-established boundaries of what was acceptable were exploded, never to be restored. Suddenly the individual had not only the freedom and possibility of thinking for himself but the weighty responsibility before God of doing so.

Perhaps the most remarkable aspect of Luther’s story is that it need never have happened. Martin Luther was not a man born—or later inclined—to tilt at papal windmills. In fact, until about 1520 he was as vigorous a champion of the church as anyone who had ever lived. He desired desperately to help Rome elude the fate it ended up experiencing. In fact, in a case of extreme irony—so much so that one might think of Oedipus—he became the very man who brought about everything he had hoped to avoid. As his story illustrates, it was a sublime and ridiculous decoction of forces that created the perfect storm that burst over the European continent, creating what we now call the Reformation and the future. We can only wonder what might have been avoided had the distracted Pope Leo been sensitive to his role in history and taken the German monk’s earnest suggestions to heart. It was Rome’s mystifying inflexibility that drove Luther to bolder and bolder public positions, eventually putting him beyond rapprochement and setting him along a path that will forever be debated either as heretical and ignominious or as orthodox and glorious. But for good and for ill, Martin Luther was the midwife of the irrevocably divided world in which we now live.


12.13.2018

Things You Can Do in a City Without a Car

Earlier this month I tweeted about all the things I did in a 24-hour period without having to use a car.  A lot of people responded to say how impressed they were with me, but that wasn't the goal, so I am now a little embarrassed.  My point was not to highlight my schedule per se, but rather how easy it is to have a full life in a city and not ever get into a car.  


12.11.2018

2019 Predictions Guaranteed or Your Money Back

It’s time to gaze into the ol’ crystal ball, say crazy stuff, and hope that no one checks after the fact.
But first, these were my predictions from a year ago:

1. Facebook has a “Wells Fargo” moment (i.e. millions of fake accounts, and not for fake news’ sake but to game ad rates), and we all have a collective “wait, we should probably read the fine print” moment with our social media accounts.
Not really but close enough?

2. Donald Trump?  I can't predict next week, let alone next year.
Right again!


12.07.2018

2018 Books I've Read

Here are my ratings for the books I read in the past 12 months.  In case you've forgotten, the scale goes like this: 1 - pass, 2 - some good some bad, 3 - recommended, 4 - can't stop raving about it, 5 - fundamentally 
changed my life.

Please weigh in with recommendations.  If you have been following this list over the years, you see an evolution in greater diversity in authors and topics, although still overwhelming non-fiction.  I welcome hearing about must-reads.


12.06.2018

New Year's Resolutions

Since 2011, I’ve posted my New Year’s resolutions at the end of each year.  It’s a good way to do a year-end check-up and see how I did and what I need to recommit to into the New Year.  So without further ado:


1. Body - run 500 miles, swim 50 miles, lift 120 times, bike 500 miles, eat/sleep better.

Thankful for long-engrained habits around diet and exercise.  As I age, these habits become harder to keep but more essential to my happiness and functioning.  Now sleep, that's something I am not doing so good with.  My workout tallies for 1/1/18-11/30/18: ran 716 mi, swam 58 mi, lifted 136 times, biked 448 miles.  Grade: B.

12.04.2018

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Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Unified: How Our Unlikely Friendship Gives Us Hope for a Divided Country," by Tim Scott and Trey Gowdy.



TIM

It didn’t take long for me to become aware of the media’s high interest in the two new black Republicans, Allen West and me. The Republican House leadership encouraged us to be as visible as we felt comfortable with on the issues that mattered to each of us. It was an incredible opportunity for them to have two African American Republican members of Congress. The demands were intense. I had total autonomy to decide how involved or uninvolved I wanted to be, but the volume of media requests was constant—and often through the roof. 

I quickly decided that I did not want to become the guy who represents “the conservative black perspective” on every issue. Allen and I both wanted to find our own stride, determine our own answers to the issues, and just be ourselves in the political climate. Yet I wanted to answer enough of the questions and respond to enough of the interviews that my voice would be heard where it could possibly make a difference. This created a tension that began to take its toll. With such a steady stream—or torrent—of opportunities, it was difficult to decide which interviews to take and which to decline. No matter how many times I said yes, I was still turning down 95 percent of the requests. 

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  Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Moby Dick," by Herman Melville. Again, I always go to sea as a sailor, bec...