9.27.2023

Blogging About Blogging

 


Besides this blog, "Musings of an Urban Christian," I also have a family blog called "Huang Kid Khronicles." Between the two, I've averaged about a blog post a day over the past 20+ years of MUC (~17/month) and 18+ years of HKK (~13/month), although that's skewed by much more posting in the distant past (nowadays it's usually twice a week for MUC and once a week for HKK).

Blogging has evolved a bunch during this time but I haven't really. It remains a platform to contemplate, opine, and share, with not much innovation from me about how I do it and what it looks like. No matter, as it's simply for fun and for discussion. I hope you've enjoyed it and I hope to continue to do so for many years to come.

9.25.2023

Sin Sick

 


Religion is a lightning rod topic in most circles I run in, and the notion of "sin" is even more loaded. And I get it. How one religion defines "sin" establishes a category of behaviors that believers say can condemn you to hell, and for many that feels judgmental, narrow-minded, and mean-spirited. As a result, it's a topic most people want nothing to do with.

Which is unfortunate. Leave aside whether this is truly a matter of eternal significance, and consider other aspects of "sin" that do not have to do with relationship with the divine. I believe "sin" also entails relationship with oneself and relationship with others. And I also believe that, while we may differ in exactly what is and is not a sin, there are likely some pretty basic ones that no one would dispute. So by throwing out the whole topic, we're missing out on a pretty huge part of healthy human existence, which is how do we deal with conflict between people and conflict within ourselves.

People have many problems with the Christian faith I adhere to, and I respect that. I do think that the intra-personal and inter-personal aspects of how we address sin are helpful for me and potentially for others, and I regret that there is not enough exploration of how to deal with sin on these dimensions. Again, sticking just with the obvious misdeeds that most of us would agree are bad, the notion of acknowledging to ourselves that we've done wrong, acknowledging to others that we have wronged them, seeking forgiveness, receiving forgiveness, and committing to do better in the future are all healthy and constructive actions to take, which all too often are not even considered let alone executed. This is a missed opportunity for healing, across people and within ourselves. For example, I am glad to hear there is more of this incorporated into criminal justice interventions. Unacknowledged sin, failure to ask for forgiveness, unwillingness to extend or receive forgiveness, stubbornness about changing our ways...these are all unhealthy and destructive things that we should care deeply about avoiding. If we lack the frameworks and words to do so, we are more likely to remain hurt and to hurt others.

The next time you hear "sin" and recoil, I understand there are aspects of that concept that you may find hurtful and ignorant. I hope you will consider other aspects that may be internally and externally restorative.

9.20.2023

Too Short for a Blog Post, Too Long for a Tweet 393

 


Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Our Towns: A 100,000-Mile Journey into the Heart of America," by Deborah and James Fallows.

 

By the end of the journey, we felt sure of something we had suspected at the beginning: an important part of the face of modern America has slipped from people’s view, in a way that makes a big and destructive difference in the country’s public and economic life. Despite the economic crises of the preceding decade and the social tensions of which every American is aware, most parts of the United States that we visited have been doing better, in most ways, than most Americans realize. Because many people don’t know that, they’re inclined to view any local problems as symptoms of wider disasters, and to dismiss local successes as fortunate anomalies. They feel even angrier about the country’s challenges than they should, and more fatalistic about the prospects of dealing with them. 

We wanted to look at parts of the country generally missed by the media spotlight. That would mean reporting in the places often considered as “flyover country.” Such cities, medium-sized or below, and rural areas usually made their way to national attention only after a tornado or a mass shooting; during presidential-campaign season; or as backdrops for “concept” pieces like “The Private Prison Revolution” or “After Coal: What?” We were interested in places that had faced adversity of some sort, from crop failure to job loss to political crisis, and had looked for ways to respond.



When Whittenberg was preparing to open, in 2010, few people had gotten wind of it. High schoolers were hired to canvass the school’s neighborhood, introducing the school to parents and encouraging them to enroll their youngsters. By the second year, word was out, and out-of-district parents camped in front of the school for a week before registration, hoping to secure a first-come, first-served spot. The demand was so high that the local Lowe’s home store offered discounts on camping supplies. Registration day spun out of control. Videos showed parents stampeding the doors when they opened. The next year, the school switched to a lottery system. Now, a Whittenberg administrator told me, Greenville real estate agents advertise the location as a plus for houses listed in the Whittenberg district.



McClure says that cooperation and support happen naturally in the fashion industry in Columbus. Big brands, the likes of Abercrombie & Fitch, Designer Shoe Warehouse, Victoria’s Secret, Lane Bryant, and others, get along with the little start-ups and boutiques, he explained, and operate as though there is room for all to work for the greater good of fashion in Columbus. Several times, we heard the mantra that Columbus is No. 3 in fashion design after New York and Los Angeles.



Whether they come out and say it or not, many of the country’s most ambitious people assume that work of a certain level requires being in a certain place. This idea of a vast national sorting system for talent has huge ramifications. They range from politics to the distortion of real estate prices in a handful of coastal big cities. But as we continued to find, in countless other places across the country, people don’t have to start out assuming that most of what they take home will immediately go out for the rent or mortgage. That is because they have calculated that—in Duluth and Greenville and Redlands and Holland and Sioux Falls and Burlington and Allentown and even larger places like Columbus, Ohio, and Charleston—they can build their company, pursue their ambition, and realize their dream without crowding into the biggest cities.

Some people have always preferred the small-town life; of course, America has always had diverse regional centers; and, of course, locational concentration matters in many industries. I had known that before we started these travels. What I hadn’t known is how consistently, and across such a wide range, we would find people pursuing first-tier ambitions in what big-city people would consider the sticks.



Practicality: “It’s one of those places that has never had a boom, so booms and busts are relative. If you’re never up, you can’t be down.” 

Lack of pretension: “Lots of people can make an album in the studio who can’t do it live.” (Mountain Stage is recorded before a live audience.) “That is very West Virginia, too: to deliver in person. We have hillbillies, but we’ll tell you what a hillbilly is—you [outsiders] don’t tell us.” This was two years before J. D. Vance’s book Hillbilly Elegy made the term a staple of political conversation. “A hillbilly isn’t an ignorant fool. He’s a straightforward, self-effacing, ‘what you see is what you get’ person. He relies on his friends because he doesn’t trust a lot of other things. He is not necessarily formally educated. But he is smart.” 

Generosity: “If your car gets broken down, you want it to happen in West Virginia. This whole stuff about Deliverance, it’s just the opposite. If something happens, you want it to happen here. People will stop and help.” Groce told the story of a national network correspondent who came to interview people nearby and found them unwilling to answer questions. So he put up the hood of his car as if he were having engine trouble, and people came over to help him out and talk with him.



And once more from Jake Soberal: “What’s the main thing making Fresno better? I believe that we have a generation of young people who do not want to adopt their parents’ view of this place. Or the world’s view. That is really, really significant. Increasingly we’re able to count among those young people some of our most talented. Whereas before Fresno was famous for losing those people.” 

Soberal said that a number of local groups were interested in changing the prevailing views of the city, from the mayor to the downtown alliance. He supports those efforts, he said. “But the group of people involved in changing what others think about the city is smaller than the group of people who say, ‘I don’t care what you, Dad, might think about Fresno. There is real data that makes me excited about what I can do here.’ That group is growing quite large, and the decisions they make are driven by data. They think, I can open a restaurant here, I can get a house here, I can build a company here. I don’t care that you think Fresno sucks.”



The ecological story behind the American Prairie Reserve was a scientific determination, around the year 2000, that there were only four extensive-grassland areas in the world that had never been plowed or reaped by mechanical harvester and thus, in principle, might have their original plant and animal ecosystems restored. One was in Kazakhstan, another in Patagonia, and a third in Mongolia—and all three of those were shrinking, as farming intruded on their borders. The fourth was in Montana, in the central region of the state, due north of Yellowstone Park in Wyoming, and was more intact than any of the others.

9.18.2023

The Importance of Allyship



This video is over two years old but I watched it for the first time last month and it made me tear up. Kyle Korver and Dwyane Wade, who in addition to being great basketball players are also stand-up guys, accomplished so much in speaking out against anti-Asian hate. You really have to watch this, especially if you are of Asian descent.

All allyship is good. When someone who isn't in your shoes walks a mile in those shoes and expresses empathy and concern, it is such a wonderful act of compassion. For Asian-Americans, I think it hits even harder because part of the struggle we face is not just our share of hardships but the sense that we are being silenced, dismissed, made invisible. For two prominent guys, one white and one Black, to say what they said is so powerful for feeling seen and heard. I tip my hat to them both and to all others, famous or not, who speak up and speak out for us.

9.13.2023

We Are Constantly Making Progress But Are We Getting Better

 


One of the raging debates in sports right now is "MJ or LeBron," which is to say is Michael Jordan or LeBron James the greatest of all time. Babe Ruth, who last played 88 years ago, is commonly thought of as the Greatest of All Time (GOAT) in baseball. And of course, Muhammad Ali is the origin of the term "GOAT"; his last time in the boxing ring was in 1981 which is over 40 years ago.

These discussions are fun, even if they can get heated as people state their case for one athlete over another. The "MJ or LeBron" debate invariably hinges on things like how important championships are or who had better teammates. What I find interesting is that there is usually a generational dynamic to the discussion, with the MJ camp often saying LeBron wouldn't survive in the rougher era of the 80's and 90's and the LeBron camp countering that the competition is so much stiffer nowadays than a generation ago.

There is a very real sense in which athletes are objectively bigger, faster, and stronger than before, which probably means that they're better too. Today's athletes are also privy to huge advancements in medicine, training, and nutrition. Given that, is it possible for the GOAT to be someone who played 20, 40, or 80 years ago? Seems unlikely. But also seems unsatisfying that the GOAT in a sport is necessarily someone playing in the present day.

It makes me think we need to reframe the question. Is it "who was the most dominant relative to their era?" Or maybe "put '86 MJ and '18 LeBron on a court, who wins?" Perhaps the best one would be "magically put peak LeBron back in the '80s, would he dominate" or "magically put peak MJ into the league now, would he dominate." That's probably the best way to frame the debate, but also the hardest to answer. Would MJ's legendary killer instinct still trump everything if he was no longer the most physically gifted athlete on the court? Could LeBron's mind and might overcome the chippier style of play that was allowed back then? No one can really say.

Folks can continue that debate or any other sports GOAT debate they want, as it's fun to. The point I want to pivot to is that in society we are in a similar place. We benefit from human advancement and are more aware of social issues so are necessarily ahead of those who came before us, and in some cases extremely far ahead. Whether that means we are better than previous generations is not certain, though. As we'd want to grade LeBron or Shohei or anyone else based on the advancements available to them, so we ought to acknowledge that we are the beneficiaries of the intellectual and social progress that has brought us to the present day. What we do with it, and how those in generations to come will evaluate how we did, is what will determine if we are in fact better. It's something to aspire to, to commit to, to be inspired to achieve. I know it's something I think about and want to do.


9.11.2023

Reading Into Things

 


I am almost 400 posts into my "Too Short for a Blog Post, Too Long for a Tweet" series, which are excerpts without commentary from books I've recently read. Reading is such an important leisure activity for me as an introvert, to decompress in the solitude of my nose in a book. Of course beyond the act itself is the information conveyed in the act, which entertains and educates and challenges and inspires.

It has been helpful, in recent years, to be intentional about diversifying my titles, from almost exclusively non-fiction written by white men to all kinds of genres and perspectives. I am still more into non-fiction than fiction, but have greatly enjoyed and benefited from working more fiction into my rotation. I've definitely tried to seek out authors whose life perspective is different from mine; I've found that to be a helpful reminder that people are different from me and from each other, and that that's a good thing because we learn and grow when we are confronted with varied perspectives.

I hope that my approach to absorbing content is to be both open-minded and critical. I don't shy away from and sometimes seek out perspectives I don't agree with, and try to be respectful of the thought process or life perspective contained in those words. But I also do not blindly accept everything I read, and while I'm open to a lot of varying opinions I do believe there are such things as absolute rights and wrongs and I want to make sure my mind is properly filtering new information from that lens.

I do not assume that anyone reading my posts agrees with me on everything; in fact, I would hate that as that would mean I have created my own echo chamber and am worse for it. I also do not assume that I haven't offended folks with what or who I've quoted, and I want to be more sensitive about that and err on the side of not causing anyone harm. I do hope that you enjoy and benefit from most of the excerpts I share; I certainly have and it's for that reason I share them.

9.06.2023

Free Rider

 


I grew up in the skinny part of West San Jose between Cupertino to the north and Saratoga to the south. Our street was off of Johnson Avenue, which ran the length of this section of West San Jose. I looked it up on Google Maps and it is 1.2 miles down Johnson from the Cupertino border to the Saratoga border.

When I first learned how to ride a bike, that might as well have been 1.2 light years. Partly because it was a whole other town and partly because you’d have to cross a major road, my biking around would often take me up to these borders but not past. To go past felt like being unfathomably far from home.

One day, I was feeling extra bold and I decided to ride the length of Johnson Ave and cross into Saratoga. It was exhilarating to cross this previous barrier I’d erected in my head and to explore a part of the world I’d never been to. I’ll never forget that feeling.

I share this anecdote to connect it my current love for exploring cities on bike. Three or four times a year, I take a day off from work and kids and go to some city to putter around on bike. I seldom make plans to meet up with anyone because I want complete autonomy to go where the winds take me. It is incredibly restful and liberating to do this.

Last month, our local Y’s pool was closed for a week for maintenance. I took the opportunity to replace my usual pre-dawn swim workouts with bike rides. I knew these rides would take me back to COVID days, when the Y and everything else was closed so the only out-of-house exercise I could do was run or bike. It was only a couple of years ago but it was the same routes and the same time of day, so indeed it did take me back (and, at that hour, there was similarly not that many people or cars out, so it really was quite similar).

What caught me by surprise was how it tapped into, if not the specific memory of biking Johnson Avenue into Saratoga, then a general feeling of childhood delight and carefree wonder. I have many responsibilities and worries in my life that are hard to fully shut off no matter what I’m doing to unwind. But riding a bike seems to connect me to a sense of being present and being free that few other activities afford. You can see why I organize my days off around riding around a city. And maybe I should work some more bike rides into my workout regimen too.


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  Here are a few excerpts from a book I recently read, "Moby Dick," by Herman Melville. Again, I always go to sea as a sailor, bec...