March was really busy for Amy and Lee at their respective jobs, and it didn't help Lee that he was sick twice and battled allergies in between. Jada continues to enjoy her ballet class and Aaron starts baseball next month. Weekdays were a fire drill for us all, and weekends consisted of chores, play dates, and naps. Good times all around.73-91 born SEA lived SJC 00 married (Amy) home (UCity) 05 Jada (PRC) 07 Aaron (ROC) 15 Asher (OKC) | 91-95 BS Wharton (Acctg Mgmt) 04-06 MPA Fels (EconDev PubFnc) 12-19 Prof GAFL517 (Fels) | 95-05 EVP Enterprise Ctr 06-12 Dir Econsult Corp 13- Principal Econsult Solns 18-21 Phila Schl Board 19- Owner Lee A Huang Rentals LLC | Bds/Adv: Asian Chamber, Penn Weitzman, PIDC, UPA, YMCA | Mmbr: Brit Amer Proj, James Brister Society
3.31.2012
Huang Family Newsletter
March was really busy for Amy and Lee at their respective jobs, and it didn't help Lee that he was sick twice and battled allergies in between. Jada continues to enjoy her ballet class and Aaron starts baseball next month. Weekdays were a fire drill for us all, and weekends consisted of chores, play dates, and naps. Good times all around.3.30.2012
Still Musing
You didn't fall for yesterday's post, did you? "Prydali in Laos" is an anagram for "April Fool's Day." There's no ghost writer here at Musings, just me pumping out dreck at early hours and not usually taking the time (let alone considering expending money) to reread or proofread. Such an approach is intentional, although sometimes it gets me in trouble for not being more careful with my words, because I want my blog to reflect my relatively unprocessed thoughts, rather than some carefully curated image I want to project. (You can tell I have no aspirations to ever be a Supreme Court Justice.) Gotcha.
3.29.2012
It's a Ghost
Well, I can't really hide this secret anymore, so I better get ahead of the story. It started, innocently enough, with a tip from a family member of mine, who suggested that I use an outfit in Laos to proofread my blog posts before they went live. Since I've never spent a dime of money on my blog, I was skeptical, until I found out how cheap this service is and how much time I would be saving by doing this. Since time is money, and the money was so little and my time so scarce, I decided to give it a try.
Well, proofreading services turned into wholesale writing suggestions, link-finding, and Internet research. At one point in my weekly check-in chat, I joked with my Laotian contact, Prydali, that he was good enough to fill in for me if I ever wanted to take a break. It turns out "Master P" (my nickname for him; I've never met him in person, nor have I seen a picture of him, so in my mind I just conjure up an image of a Laotian version of Master P) had been thinking the same thing, and three months of copy-editing for me had attuned him to my interests and my cadence. He immediately sent me three sample posts that he had created on his own time, and I was floored: it was like reading myself, only I had no recollection of having ever written any of it. We ended up running two of those three posts, no one raised an eyebrow, and I was hooked. He proceeded to ghost-write at least once a week just to mix things up and give me a break, plus he took over full-time during a three-week period late in which I was particularly jammed up and didn't have the time to blog.
Looking back on my archives, P didn't quite get me right away, but I only say that to say that his later writings are even more eerily spot-on, so they make his earlier writings relatively shaky by comparison. But that's besides the point. The point of today's post is to out myself as not being the only contributor to Musings. In fact, since the New Year, I'm easily in the minority; P has probably done 60 to 70 percent of the posts in 2012.
He's channeling me, so it's still my blog, in a sense; but my secretive use of a ghost writer is a burden I now feel I must disclose, lest I feel like a total sham. I hope you'll still consider checking me out here; I assure you I'm never going to turn over all of my posts to Master P. If anything, you're getting more of me than I can produce myself. Still, I'm sorry if you're disappointed in my deception.
Well, proofreading services turned into wholesale writing suggestions, link-finding, and Internet research. At one point in my weekly check-in chat, I joked with my Laotian contact, Prydali, that he was good enough to fill in for me if I ever wanted to take a break. It turns out "Master P" (my nickname for him; I've never met him in person, nor have I seen a picture of him, so in my mind I just conjure up an image of a Laotian version of Master P) had been thinking the same thing, and three months of copy-editing for me had attuned him to my interests and my cadence. He immediately sent me three sample posts that he had created on his own time, and I was floored: it was like reading myself, only I had no recollection of having ever written any of it. We ended up running two of those three posts, no one raised an eyebrow, and I was hooked. He proceeded to ghost-write at least once a week just to mix things up and give me a break, plus he took over full-time during a three-week period late in which I was particularly jammed up and didn't have the time to blog.
Looking back on my archives, P didn't quite get me right away, but I only say that to say that his later writings are even more eerily spot-on, so they make his earlier writings relatively shaky by comparison. But that's besides the point. The point of today's post is to out myself as not being the only contributor to Musings. In fact, since the New Year, I'm easily in the minority; P has probably done 60 to 70 percent of the posts in 2012.
He's channeling me, so it's still my blog, in a sense; but my secretive use of a ghost writer is a burden I now feel I must disclose, lest I feel like a total sham. I hope you'll still consider checking me out here; I assure you I'm never going to turn over all of my posts to Master P. If anything, you're getting more of me than I can produce myself. Still, I'm sorry if you're disappointed in my deception.
3.28.2012
Twelve Years Ago Today
Amy and I closed on one of houses twelve years ago today. I remember us celebrating over lunch at New Deck Tavern nearby our closing, at first feeling the relief of surviving the closing process and then feeling the dread of being responsible for a house. Amy would move in that evening (we inherited four tenants on the first and second floor, so she holed up on the third floor), and I moved in when we returned from our honeymoon a month later.
Twelve years, four refinancings, and two kids later, here we are feeling very much at home in our home and in our neighborhood. We are within walking distance of many things important to us, including church, school, one of Amy's offices, and tons of transit stops and restaurants. We've fixed up the things that have needed fixing, made things nice that we wanted nice, and otherwise turned this 100+ year old structure into a true home base for ourselves and our kids. We enjoy the eclectic nature of our neighborhood, and have gotten to know and love our neighbors, whose kids are our friends' kids, who keep an eye out for us, and who socialize with us in the bird sanctuary right outside our backyard.
University City circa 2012 is certainly no urban war zone, but there are ever reminders of the good, bad, and ugly of city life. There is less crime than there was back then, but we are more aware of it, because I get the skinny from my fellow community association board members and because I have two little ones to protect. Many of the parents of my kids' friends are well-educated professionals who have moved into the neighborhood because of our good schools - lawyers, doctors, professors - but many of them are long-time residents who have blue-collar jobs or eke by on SSDI. (True to our neighborhood's diversity, all racial and ethnic groups are counted among both ends of that spectrum.) Our church, which draws a majority of its regular attendees from walking distance, is perennially under-resourced in money and in time, for though we have many well-to-do among us, we also have many who are in great financial, psychological, social, and medical need.
Twelve years ago, as one seeking to be a faithful follower of Jesus in a big city, without much experience on what that actually meant, I could've done worse than where we bought, when we bought; and, twelve years later, I'm thankful for what we bought and when we bought. Our neighborhood, and our house purchase, has been a catalyst for my exploration of faith and place, of thorny urban issues, of politics and race and economics and neighborhoods; and they have been my muse for this blog. I can't think of a better place to be; I can't think of a better place for my kids to grow up.
3.27.2012
2012 MLB Predictions Guaranteed or Your Money Back
As my life has gotten busier, my sports consumption has dwindled to almost nothing. My childhood self and even my self from a few years back would be mortified to hear that I watch no games live, hardly have time even to tape and fast forward, and have even shrunk back on consumption of the sports page and sports websites. At a time of unprecedented sports content and access, my interests have dwindled to select pro football games, marquee NBA match-ups, and playoff baseball.
So I thought for the longest time that I wouldn't entertain any MLB predictions this year. I haven't followed trades or injuries, or read up on who's up for a breakout year and who's regressing to the mean. I couldn't even tell you half the starting line-up for the A's, and they're my favorite team. But hey, what's a fan to do in late March, when everyone's still in the hunt and hope springs eternal, then to make a few wild predictions and then see what happens come October? So here you go:NL: Diamondbacks, Reds, Phils (WC: Braves, Marlins)
AL: Angels, Tigers, Rays (WC: Yanks, Red Sox)
Div: Angels (over Red Sox), Tigers, Marlins (over Phils), Reds
WS: Angels over Marlins
3.26.2012
Econsult and Social Media
All around the country, bosses are tapping some young dude or dudette on the shoulder and saying, "I hear this social media stuff is going to stay . . . think you can get our firm in on it?" My bosses are far more clued in than this, but it's still new ground for us, so we're taking it slow, and I've had the pleasure of being involved in getting us off the ground. Which probably makes me the oldest person on the planet to be tapped in such a way.
(Not to be confused with the oldest person who knows something about social media; obviously, there are people much older than me who are much more versed on such things. I think what I'm trying to say is that I'm old for someone being seen as young.)
Anyway, if you have a desire to follow us, we're on Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter. Every once in a while, we might actually say something interesting.
3.24.2012
Super Shuffle
My high school friend Kurt Kuenne continues to rack up the deserved kudos. Here's a message from him regarding recent acclaim for his new film, "Shuffle." You'll want to check this flick out when it comes to a theater near you. Congrats, Kurt!
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Date: Thu, Mar 22, 2012 at 10:44 PM
Subject: "Shuffle" wins Audience Award in Sedona, New Visions Award at Cinequest -- screens next in NJ, Cleveland, Atlanta, Phoenix, Vail, Brussels...
Hi Everyone,
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Date: Thu, Mar 22, 2012 at 10:44 PM
Subject: "Shuffle" wins Audience Award in Sedona, New Visions Award at Cinequest -- screens next in NJ, Cleveland, Atlanta, Phoenix, Vail, Brussels...
Hi Everyone,
Kurt
here; hope you've been having a fabulous March! Just wanted to give
you the latest news with "Shuffle", along with its upcoming screening
times for those local to the festivals playing it. Here we go:
"Shuffle" tied for the Audience Award at
the Sedona International Film Festival in late February, where it sold
out two shows and a third was added by popular demand. It then won the New Visions Award (best
film in its category, New Visions) at Cinequest in San Jose, where it
had 4 screenings scheduled and a 5th was added on the last day. Photos
from our recent events can be found here: http://www.facebook.com/ shufflethemovie/photos
It next screens tomorrow night (Friday) at:
The Garden State Film Festival -- Opening Night Film!
Friday, March 23rd -- 7 PM
The Paramount Theatre
1300 Ocean Avenue
Asbury Park, NJ 07712
I will be in attendance with actor/producer Chris Stone and Exec. Producer Brennan W. Penney.
Then:
The next morning I'm off to the Cleveland International Film Festival, where the kind folks there are honoring me with a "Director's Spotlight Award" and
doing a retrospective of my work around "Shuffle", which is a huge
honor. This is only the 7th time they've given this award and previous
recipients include the esteemed filmmakers John Sayles, Todd Solondz and
Frieda Lee Mock, so it's a very big deal for me. :) Their page about
the award is here: http://www.clevelandfilm.org/ festival/special-programs/ directors-spotlight
The films of mine they're showing are:
"Shuffle" -- Saturday 3/24 at 6 PM, Monday 3/26 at 4:30 PM
"Dear Zachary: a letter to a son about his father" -- Saturday 3/24 at 3:30 PM, Sunday 3/25 at 11:40 AM
"Drive-In Movie Memories" (preceded by my shorts "Rent-A-Person", " Validation", "Slow" and "The Phone Book") -- Saturday, 3/24 at 11:30 AM, Sunday 3/25 at 6:40 PM
"Scrapbook" -- Sunday, 3/25 at 3:40 PM, Monday 3/26 at 6:20 PM
I will be in attendance at all showings, which will be at:
The Cleveland International Film Festival
The Tower City Cinemas
239 West Huron Road
Cleveland, OH 44113
Simultaneously, "Shuffle" will be showing at:
The Atlanta Film Festival
Sunday, March 25th -- 12:30 PM
Landmark Midtown Art Cinema
931 Monroe Drive
Atlanta, GA 30308
Actor Scott Poythress will be in attendance.
Then:
The Phoenix Film Festival
Friday, March 30th - 3:10 PM
Saturday, March 31st - 1:35 PM
Sunday, April 1st - 11:55 AM
Harkins Scottsdale 101 Theatre
7000 E. Mayo Blvd
Phoenix, AZ 85054
I will be in attendance at all 3 shows.
Simultaneously, it will be showing at:
The Vail Film Festival
Friday, March 30th - 3:30 PM
The Sebastian Hotel
16 Vail Road
Vail, CO 81657
and
Saturday, March 31st - 5 PM
Cinebistro at Solaris
141 East Meadow Drive
Vail, CO 81657
The following week, we have our INTERNATIONAL PREMIERE at:
The Brussels International Festival of Fantastic Film (Belgium)
Friday, April 6th -- 6 PM (18:00 hrs)
Festival home page: http://www. festivalfantastique.org/ festival/
More screenings are lined up for April, May and beyond -- will announce them when I can. :)
Hope you have a fabulous rest of March!
All the best,
Kurt
3.23.2012
Innovation Nation
Dear presidential candidates: here's a 25-point toss-up. What is your plan to make America a place where innovation happens? I'm tired of your pandering on jobs and tariffs and subsidies, and I want to know what policies you will put in place to create a welcoming environment for our innate curiosity, creativity, and drive to make the world a better place.
Within the past week, I have read about a running shoe made out of two sewn pieces, a camera that allows you to focus after you've taken the picture, and a soccer ball that stores the kinetic energy from its movement to provide electricity, and I am heartened by the ingenuity and cleverness. But I am not sure that America is doing all it can to encourage such risk-taking and multiply such successes.If you can give me a cohesive response to my query, you have my vote on November 6.

3.21.2012
Heartbreak City
Maybe it was because it was 6 in the morning after a long
and busy weekend. Or that it was Monday
morning at the commencement of a long and busy week ahead. Or that I was bushed from running on the
streets and ending up at the Y to lift.
For whatever reason, I was flat on my back, looking up at the ceiling in
the fitness room after a set of crunches, gasping for air and feeling the
tiredness in my bones. But when I heard about
the shootings in Chicago this weekend, and especially that a six-year-old girl,
caught in the crossfire, was one of the fatalities, it really took the wind out
of my sails. I thought of my own little
girl, and of the horror this Chicago family must be feeling, and of the
senselessness of it all.
It turns out this little girl was friends with the daughter
of one of my friends who used to attend my church here in Philadelphia before
they moved into inner city Chicago to minister there. This connection made more real this terrible
loss, as did reading about it more from a member of the church my friend
attends, which is trying to provide support at a time when all seems like it is
falling apart. And, of course, I thought
back, again, to my own kids, and to their friends, and my heart could not even
bear to think too hard about losing one of them in this way.
Crime and violence is a problem everywhere, of course, but
in our big cities there are neighborhoods in which it is absolutely
dominating. Where we live is by no means
in this category; though we are not far from such neighborhoods, we feel safe
and we feel fortunate. I’m not sure I
have the stomach to move to a more dangerous place, but I know many, including
my friend now in Chicago, who have, and in doing so put themselves and their
children in harm’s way in a very real sense to serve a high calling and
practice a living faith.
We Christians have a mixed track record when it comes to
being comfort and refuge for those who have been ravaged by life’s
tragedies. Too many of us take refuge in
our holy huddles, tsk-tsking from a distance (“they got what they deserve”) or
offering hollow platitudes (“God must have a higher purpose in all of
this”). When push comes to shove, I more
often than not cringe at my own response and the response of others of my
faith, and not often enough do I think we did right in a tough situation.
But, thankfully, what we can and should offer in times of
great loss, is not our uneven track record, our finite care, or our fleeting
wisdom. Rather, what we can and should
offer is the empathy of a God who Himself lost a child, in a dramatic and
excruciating way, and the empathy of a Savior who is not unfamiliar with grief
and sorrow and loss and ruin. However
imperfect we are as vessels of such love, the love itself is powerful enough to
come through. I pray for such a love to
pour forth to these affected families in Chicago, and for more vessels there
and elsewhere who will carry that love to the heartbroken.
3.20.2012
President Precedent
Since we're in an election year, here's a 25-point tossup. Rank the following in order of when you think they will happen next:(a) first female president
(b) first non-Christian president
(c) first Asian president
(d) first Latino president
(e) first openly gay president
(f) second black president
I would also be interested in the reasons behind your ranks, which I imagine will be some combination of your personal hopes, your read of America's tolerance levels, your understanding of demographic trends, and your assessment of up-and-coming politicians.
3.16.2012
Mondays: Manic, Mundane, Mulish
Apologies in advance for the excruciatingly boring nature of today's post. Ever the documentarian, every once in a while, I like to catalog my days, both for my future self as well as for my many suburban friends and family members who are fascinated with our urban ways of life.
Today's post has an additional purpose of demonstrating how much of a mule I am at times. It's funny how Amy and I are high-powered economic consultant and psych nurse practitioner by day, but by morning and evening we are bag-carrier, maid, and cook for a couple of kids. Strange how life works sometimes.
Anyway, Monday was catalog-worthy, so here goes:
7:00a - Been up since 4. Praying, running outside, lifting at the Y, showering, shaving, dressing. The kids get up, get dressed, and amble downstairs for breakfast. The kitchen is a blur of eating breakfast, fixing lunches, washing dishes, putting away other dishes, and cleaning up.
8:00a - It's a two-block walk to Jada's school, and then one more block to Aaron's. (Pick-up is even more convenient, as Jada ends up at Aaron's school after-school.) I walk five more blocks to the subway stop, and within five minutes am downtown. My office is two blocks more. Morning commute, including two kid drop-offs, totals less than 30 minutes, ten blocks walked, no cost (Transpass = unlimited rides), no gas consumed. Piece of cake, except for the facts that on Monday I am literally a mule, carrying my work bag (which includes my laptop, which I bring home so I can work some on the weekend), my lunch, Aaron's blanket and sheet (which Amy has washed over the weekend), and Jada's ballet bag (so I have it when I pick her up after school). (The kids will often pile on me by asking me to carry their lunch boxes and backpacks, so that they can run free.)
8:30a - I cram some work in before walking a block to a PATCO stop and taking a ten-minute ride to Camden, New Jersey. I emerge a block away from my meeting destination, Cooper Health System. Fare is $2.80 round-trip, or 30 percent less than the toll to cross the Ben Franklin Bridge, to say nothing of gas, parking, and traffic.
5:00p - After I return from my Camden meeting, I have three more afternoon meetings back-to-back-to-back, totaling two hours. Monday is actually a light day for me in the context of this week, as Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday will combine for a whopping 18 meetings totaling 18 hours. Since I have nine hours per day of work time during normal business hours, it doesn't leave much time for work, of which I have a lot this week, so it's daunting to think on Monday that I'm just at the beginning.
5:30p - I've cut out early to grab Aaron and Jada, walk them six blocks to Jada's ballet class, walk Aaron four blocks home, eat dinner with Amy and Aaron, clean up while Aaron gets ready for bed, walk four blocks back to Jada's ballet class, walk Jada four blocks home, and feed Jada dinner. Normally, we're home from school by 6ish and done with dinner and baths by 7ish, but Mondays we run a hair longer.
7:30 - Bedtime is winding down, and Amy flees to the basement for some alone time to ride the bike, catch up on TV shows, and sing. I get my stuff ready for tomorrow, put out my exercise and work clothes, and then curl up in bed with a book for about 45 minutes of reading before I crash. It's manic, mundane, and mulish . . . it's Monday.
Today's post has an additional purpose of demonstrating how much of a mule I am at times. It's funny how Amy and I are high-powered economic consultant and psych nurse practitioner by day, but by morning and evening we are bag-carrier, maid, and cook for a couple of kids. Strange how life works sometimes.
Anyway, Monday was catalog-worthy, so here goes:
7:00a - Been up since 4. Praying, running outside, lifting at the Y, showering, shaving, dressing. The kids get up, get dressed, and amble downstairs for breakfast. The kitchen is a blur of eating breakfast, fixing lunches, washing dishes, putting away other dishes, and cleaning up.
8:00a - It's a two-block walk to Jada's school, and then one more block to Aaron's. (Pick-up is even more convenient, as Jada ends up at Aaron's school after-school.) I walk five more blocks to the subway stop, and within five minutes am downtown. My office is two blocks more. Morning commute, including two kid drop-offs, totals less than 30 minutes, ten blocks walked, no cost (Transpass = unlimited rides), no gas consumed. Piece of cake, except for the facts that on Monday I am literally a mule, carrying my work bag (which includes my laptop, which I bring home so I can work some on the weekend), my lunch, Aaron's blanket and sheet (which Amy has washed over the weekend), and Jada's ballet bag (so I have it when I pick her up after school). (The kids will often pile on me by asking me to carry their lunch boxes and backpacks, so that they can run free.)
8:30a - I cram some work in before walking a block to a PATCO stop and taking a ten-minute ride to Camden, New Jersey. I emerge a block away from my meeting destination, Cooper Health System. Fare is $2.80 round-trip, or 30 percent less than the toll to cross the Ben Franklin Bridge, to say nothing of gas, parking, and traffic.
5:00p - After I return from my Camden meeting, I have three more afternoon meetings back-to-back-to-back, totaling two hours. Monday is actually a light day for me in the context of this week, as Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday will combine for a whopping 18 meetings totaling 18 hours. Since I have nine hours per day of work time during normal business hours, it doesn't leave much time for work, of which I have a lot this week, so it's daunting to think on Monday that I'm just at the beginning.
5:30p - I've cut out early to grab Aaron and Jada, walk them six blocks to Jada's ballet class, walk Aaron four blocks home, eat dinner with Amy and Aaron, clean up while Aaron gets ready for bed, walk four blocks back to Jada's ballet class, walk Jada four blocks home, and feed Jada dinner. Normally, we're home from school by 6ish and done with dinner and baths by 7ish, but Mondays we run a hair longer.
7:30 - Bedtime is winding down, and Amy flees to the basement for some alone time to ride the bike, catch up on TV shows, and sing. I get my stuff ready for tomorrow, put out my exercise and work clothes, and then curl up in bed with a book for about 45 minutes of reading before I crash. It's manic, mundane, and mulish . . . it's Monday.
3.15.2012
Plant Sale at PIC
Many of you know that Aaron and Jada's school, PIC, has an annual plant sale. If you are interested in getting a great price on a wide variety of plants, and supporting a great school in the process, you should go to http://parentinfantcenter.org/ , where you can click through to the plant sale website (or just go directly there at http://picplantsale.myshopify. com/). Pre-orders can be submitted up until April 15, and pick-up is May 4 (4p-6p) or May 5 (10a-3p). If you order anything, please include our name in the order so we are aware of your order. Many thanks!
3.14.2012
Reclaiming the Right
It may seem odd to defend my Republican leanings by trashing Republicans, but hear me out. Whether or not you believe that American media is by and large left-leaning, you don't have to wander too far to hear stories piling on about Republicans behaving badly. Since most of my friends - on Facebook and in the flesh - are Democrats, I hear these stories early and often. My internal responses are all over the place: defensive, rolling of the eyes, chastened admittance, and so on.
Conceptually, I am still in the Republican quadrant. In the economic continuum of unregulated to regulated, I prefer relatively unregulated, and in the social continuum of unregulated to regulated, I prefer relatively regulated. (Yuck, that visual to the right is really fuzzy. But I'm too lazy and uncoordinated to fix it. You get the picture.)
But it is disappointing to see so little of what I believe about conservatism actually applied by so-called conservatives. In my book, conservatism begins with a very humble view of governance and public service, that acknowledges that to serve as an elected official is to understand that power is seductive, and that delusions of being able to play savior and god must be reined in, in a disciplined manner, and replaced with a more grounded sense of reality about what can and cannot be done through the mechanism of government.
But, secondly, that doesn't mean that government isn't held to do the right things, and do them right. For while the role of government should be limited, it is also legitimate. "Professional politician" has a seedy connotation, and deservedly so, since so many are not humble and use the influence for personal gain. But it is in fact a profession, and you can get good at, and we should encourage our youngsters to consider it, and our current office holders to carry it out with competence and excellence.
Thirdly, and finally getting to the meat and potatoes of ideology and philosophy, conservatism is, at its core, a belief in the reality of scarce resources, and in the responsibility to provide wise stewardship of them. Whether it is nature, money, or political power, we are not unlimited, and a conservative approach to governance humbly acknowledges that and makes decisions accordingly.
Alas, most of what you see from the right is "party of no," knee-jerk opposition to anything coming from the other side (without thoughtful expression of why, or cogent counter-proposals), and self-righteous condemnation of others to win points. Maybe this works in the reality TV world of politics we have created, but it doesn't inspire me.
By the way, neither does pandering to interest groups, acting like you're personally responsible for some government program (when in fact it is us taxpayers who are providing it), and overstepping your sense of what a centralized bureaucracy can do to change the hearts and lives of ordinary Americans. Yes, I'm an equal opportunity cynic! Mostly, though, I'm just sad that there is so much to be cynical about, and so little to make me feel good about modern-day politics. I can't be alone, can I?
But it is disappointing to see so little of what I believe about conservatism actually applied by so-called conservatives. In my book, conservatism begins with a very humble view of governance and public service, that acknowledges that to serve as an elected official is to understand that power is seductive, and that delusions of being able to play savior and god must be reined in, in a disciplined manner, and replaced with a more grounded sense of reality about what can and cannot be done through the mechanism of government.
But, secondly, that doesn't mean that government isn't held to do the right things, and do them right. For while the role of government should be limited, it is also legitimate. "Professional politician" has a seedy connotation, and deservedly so, since so many are not humble and use the influence for personal gain. But it is in fact a profession, and you can get good at, and we should encourage our youngsters to consider it, and our current office holders to carry it out with competence and excellence.
Thirdly, and finally getting to the meat and potatoes of ideology and philosophy, conservatism is, at its core, a belief in the reality of scarce resources, and in the responsibility to provide wise stewardship of them. Whether it is nature, money, or political power, we are not unlimited, and a conservative approach to governance humbly acknowledges that and makes decisions accordingly.
Alas, most of what you see from the right is "party of no," knee-jerk opposition to anything coming from the other side (without thoughtful expression of why, or cogent counter-proposals), and self-righteous condemnation of others to win points. Maybe this works in the reality TV world of politics we have created, but it doesn't inspire me.
By the way, neither does pandering to interest groups, acting like you're personally responsible for some government program (when in fact it is us taxpayers who are providing it), and overstepping your sense of what a centralized bureaucracy can do to change the hearts and lives of ordinary Americans. Yes, I'm an equal opportunity cynic! Mostly, though, I'm just sad that there is so much to be cynical about, and so little to make me feel good about modern-day politics. I can't be alone, can I?
3.13.2012
Recommended Reads, Ninth in a Series
Stuff I'd recommend from the past few months:
Creative Capitalism: A Conversation with Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, and Other Economic Leaders (Kinsey). Looots of big thinkers weigh in on the notion of triple bottom line capitalism.
Stirring It Up: How to Make Money and Save the World (Hirshberg). Speaking of creative capitalism, here's one of my personal favorite CEOs on how he started and ran Stonyfield Yogurt.
Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (Csikszentmihalyi). We hear about it in sports but it applies to the rest of life as well, that notion of being "in the zone."
The Future and Its Enemies: The Growing Conflict Over Creativity, Enterprise, and Progress (Postrel). Chaos trumps control, and creative destruction rejuvenates.
Nurture Shock: New Thinking About Children (Bronson/Merryman). I loved how counter-intuitive, provocative, and sensible this book was.
The Promise: President Obama, Year One (Alter). A fascinating look at a fascinating man during a fascinating year. (I was afraid this book would feel out of date but instead it was like a biography from long ago, and yet from really recent, if that makes any sense.)
Creative Capitalism: A Conversation with Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, and Other Economic Leaders (Kinsey). Looots of big thinkers weigh in on the notion of triple bottom line capitalism.
Stirring It Up: How to Make Money and Save the World (Hirshberg). Speaking of creative capitalism, here's one of my personal favorite CEOs on how he started and ran Stonyfield Yogurt.
Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (Csikszentmihalyi). We hear about it in sports but it applies to the rest of life as well, that notion of being "in the zone."
The Future and Its Enemies: The Growing Conflict Over Creativity, Enterprise, and Progress (Postrel). Chaos trumps control, and creative destruction rejuvenates.
Nurture Shock: New Thinking About Children (Bronson/Merryman). I loved how counter-intuitive, provocative, and sensible this book was.
The Promise: President Obama, Year One (Alter). A fascinating look at a fascinating man during a fascinating year. (I was afraid this book would feel out of date but instead it was like a biography from long ago, and yet from really recent, if that makes any sense.)
3.12.2012
Failure is an Option
As a follow-up to my post last week about Aaron's struggles with letters and numbers, I wanted to talk about the importance of failure in a child's healthy development. Failure, of course, is scary and embarrassing for mature grown-ups; so why should we steer our kids in its direction and give them chances to meet it head-on? It's for these reasons we parents often trip over ourselves to sing our kids' praises whenever they do anything good, quickly shoo them away from the scene of anything they're bad at, and insist that their activities are similarly disposed. (Trophy for everyone on the baseball team, anyone?)A colleague of mine had an eye-opening experience at work this week regarding the consequence of this kind of childhood. (I am blurring some of the details to maintain confidentiality.) A recent college grad who is a new hire on the job and who my colleague is mentoring said, during a team meeting, that he had never failed at anything. And it didn't come across as arrogance. Rather, it was a statement of truth; things he did well, he continued to do and got better at, and things he did not do well, he stopped doing and never revisited.
This youngster is bright enough that he's good at plenty of things so as to compensate for avoiding other things he's not good at. But I pity him dearly. After all, unless you are preternaturally gifted, most everything in life is hard, and takes some effort - and, yes, some failure - before we even become competent, let alone excellent. Avoiding failure, far from freeing you, cages you terribly.
Failure is uncomfortable, to be sure, and kids' psyches can be fragile, so I'm not arguing that the other extreme - constant haranguing, never feeling like you measure up, not ever getting a chance to "put points on the board" - is any healthier. But it's an important life lesson to learn how to fail, how to harness those feelings of failure, and how to persistent through multiple failures en route to success.
When my kids hit a wall - and, while they have their talents, they are far less naturally gifted than many of the kids of my smart friends, so they will hit walls a lot more often than many of their peers - I hope to be the kind of dad to come alongside them. For comfort, yes, but also to let them know that failure is good, because it identifies areas where we can improve, and also to teach them how and why to persist. For very little in life that is worthwhile is obtained without some effort - and, yes, some failure.
3.10.2012
City of Brotherly Love (and Low Prices)
I got wind of this Philadelphia Magazine blog post because my colleague Kevin Gillen is quoted in it as saying, “If you go out in Northern Liberties or Center City on a Friday or Saturday night, the bars and restaurants are packed. You’re thinking, ‘Where is the recession?’” Indeed, for the demographic represented by the blog author and her friends, Philly is a great value compared to New York, DC, and Boston.
I am reminded of a colleague of mine who transitioned from investment banking in Manhattan to working for city government in Philadelphia, and was teased by his rich young former colleagues about the downward mobility, to which he responded, “I have a two-story apartment, and you have a closet; and you pay five times more than me.” Or, as I like to say, New York may be bigger and better than Philadelphia, but is it five times better?
Just for kicks and giggles, I went to an online cost of living calculator and found that if I moved to San Jose, where I grew up and where my parents still live, I would need a 62 percent raise just to maintain the same standard of living. Although that is a staggering number, it probably understates the difference; check out the splits by category (these are indexes such that 100 represents the national average, and Philadelphia is the first number and San Jose is the second number):
Overall 106 172
Food 128 112
I shop at ghetto Pathmark in the hood, so my food bill is probably far lower than 28 percent more than the national average.
Housing 68 322
The real gap for me is probably even greater than the stated 373 percent difference (!), since I bought near the bottom here in Philadelphia, so we’re talking about a mortgage payment that has never even come close to four digits.
Utilities 132 140
Here I concede that the gap is actually probably in the other direction: since San Jose is so mild, I’m guessing I pay more for utilities here in Philadelphia than I would in San Jose, simply because I require more heating and cooling here.
Transportation 108 120
You know where I’m going with this. Our family spends very little on transportation, since we walk and public everywhere. So the spread here is probably way bigger. (Side note: it's not unusual for people to spend half of their household income on housing and transportation; for us, it's barely 10 percent.)
Health 108 119
Miscellaneous 121 103
I have nothing to add here.
Everybody’s different when it comes to personal finances. Even among friends of mine who are similar to me in lifestyle and socio-economic class, there‘s likely to be huge divergences. Just to cite one example, getting our kids by adoption was a lot more expensive than having them biologically, on the one hand, but they haven’t had any costly physical health issues, on the other hand. And, of course, different people have different tastes, in terms of how much they choose to spend on vacations, clothing, and gadgets.
All of that to say that when you live in Philadelphia, your dollar can go a lot farther, especially when compared to other high-cost areas where many of my friends and family members live, like Silicon Valley and Manhattan and Washington DC. I’m not sure I would say it as flippantly as the blog subtitle (“Being young and employed in this city makes the recession seem not so bad”), but it is helpful to remember that life can be pretty good here in the City of Brotherly Love.
3.09.2012
What Am I Working On
As has become my custom every three months, here's what I'm working on
now at work. I won't repeat anything from last time that I happen to
still be working on, and for confidentiality's sake I have to blur some
of the details for some of these studies.
1. Helping two municipalities understand how their demographics, tax burdens, and commercial office markets compare with nearby competing locations.
2. Updating an economic and fiscal impact study we had done for a major regional university several years back.
3. Helping a local institution understand the redevelopment potential of recently acquired land.
4. Quantifying the size of the creative economy within a major metropolitan region.
5. Quantifying the size of the green economy within a major metropolitan region.
6. Estimating the jobs created by a proposed downtown development project.
7. Modeling ridership, revenue, and expenditure projections for multiple proposed scenarios for a public transportation line.
1. Helping two municipalities understand how their demographics, tax burdens, and commercial office markets compare with nearby competing locations.
2. Updating an economic and fiscal impact study we had done for a major regional university several years back.
3. Helping a local institution understand the redevelopment potential of recently acquired land.
4. Quantifying the size of the creative economy within a major metropolitan region.
5. Quantifying the size of the green economy within a major metropolitan region.
6. Estimating the jobs created by a proposed downtown development project.
7. Modeling ridership, revenue, and expenditure projections for multiple proposed scenarios for a public transportation line.
3.08.2012
More Random Musings Too Lazy to Tweet
1. Because of Facebook, it seems a lot more people get high-end portraits of themselves (since they can be shared more widely). I think this is a good thing.
2. Things adoptive parents miss out on: pregnancy, that first ultrasound, breast feeding, their kid resembling them in physical appearance and in skills.
3. Why so little coverage of the Putin reelection? Foregone conclusion, yes, but also ominous for geopolitics, no? Am I the only one who's worried here? (I did tweet this.)
4. More things I know absolutely nothing about: what's hot in TV/movies/music nowadays, who's good in college hoops, how to cook fancy things.
5. At my age, I have to work really hard just to stay in shape. If I don't, I get out of shape. And if I try to get in better shape, I injure myself.
2. Things adoptive parents miss out on: pregnancy, that first ultrasound, breast feeding, their kid resembling them in physical appearance and in skills.
3. Why so little coverage of the Putin reelection? Foregone conclusion, yes, but also ominous for geopolitics, no? Am I the only one who's worried here? (I did tweet this.)
4. More things I know absolutely nothing about: what's hot in TV/movies/music nowadays, who's good in college hoops, how to cook fancy things.
5. At my age, I have to work really hard just to stay in shape. If I don't, I get out of shape. And if I try to get in better shape, I injure myself.
3.07.2012
Mitt Romney's Messaging Challenge
Super Tuesday seems to have confirmed that the primary will drag out for months but that Mitt Romney will eventually be the Republican nominee. (Unless there's a surprise at the convention?)
Count me among the legions of R's who are decidedly underwhelmed by Romney's campaign thus far. Most maddening of all has been his inability to articulate a clear presentation of what it will take to juice our economy, maintain America's competitive edge, and put people to work. As this recent Business Week article puts it, "Creative destruction is good for the economy. So why can't Mitt Romney get anyone to believe it?" (The cynic's direct answer to that question is "Because he is politically tone deaf.")
Admittedly, it is a complex and unpopular message to convey. It's a well-worn story but worth repeating: technology and globalization have irrevocably changed our economy, with fantastic benefits for hundreds of millions around the world, but with dire consequences as to how we keep up and keep people employed. We may long for the days of lifetime employment, guaranteed pensions, and high wages for low-skilled work, but those days are gone, whether we like it or not.
In the aggregate, we should like it. There was a time that agriculture required a third of our labor, and another time that manufacturing required a third of our labor; now I think it's something like 2 percent and 10 percent, respectively. This is a good thing. It's good for all of us that our food and products can be made so much more cheaply, relying on ingenuity and automation rather than back-breaking labor in dangerous conditions. Technology and globalization have led to unimaginable innovations that have improved the quality of our lives; from health care solutions to consumer products, could someone from even 50 years ago imagine what is so prevalent today that we take it for granted?
And yet, at a time when unemployment remains stubbornly high, young and old alike struggle with the disastrous effects of long-term unemployment, and fat cats make for an easy scapegoat for all these troubles, it takes some deft political jujitsu for a fabulously wealthy white male with impeccable hair to express a cogent message to the masses that will get people to buy that he's who we want in charge of our country. To add to Romney's level of difficulty, he is up against a leader who represents a once-in-a-generation combination of intelligence, sense of the moment, and communications skills.
But guess what, Mitt Romney? You're running for President of the Freakin' United States of America. It ain't an easy job. So we the people are right to expect that you can take on this messaging challenge. Explain to us a clear way forward that incorporates the inherently destructive and rejuvenating nature of modern capitalism, taps into the uniqueness that is our national narrative, and speaks to the worries and fears of a frayed generation. Stack up your view of the world and President Obama's, and decisively convince us that your way makes more economic sense, political sense, and common sense. Lose the pandering about job creation and give us the straight up truth about how an economic superpower can gird itself for prosperity and equity in a fast-moving and volatile era. I think I can speak for many others when I say: we are waiting for you to step up.
Count me among the legions of R's who are decidedly underwhelmed by Romney's campaign thus far. Most maddening of all has been his inability to articulate a clear presentation of what it will take to juice our economy, maintain America's competitive edge, and put people to work. As this recent Business Week article puts it, "Creative destruction is good for the economy. So why can't Mitt Romney get anyone to believe it?" (The cynic's direct answer to that question is "Because he is politically tone deaf.")
Admittedly, it is a complex and unpopular message to convey. It's a well-worn story but worth repeating: technology and globalization have irrevocably changed our economy, with fantastic benefits for hundreds of millions around the world, but with dire consequences as to how we keep up and keep people employed. We may long for the days of lifetime employment, guaranteed pensions, and high wages for low-skilled work, but those days are gone, whether we like it or not.
In the aggregate, we should like it. There was a time that agriculture required a third of our labor, and another time that manufacturing required a third of our labor; now I think it's something like 2 percent and 10 percent, respectively. This is a good thing. It's good for all of us that our food and products can be made so much more cheaply, relying on ingenuity and automation rather than back-breaking labor in dangerous conditions. Technology and globalization have led to unimaginable innovations that have improved the quality of our lives; from health care solutions to consumer products, could someone from even 50 years ago imagine what is so prevalent today that we take it for granted?
And yet, at a time when unemployment remains stubbornly high, young and old alike struggle with the disastrous effects of long-term unemployment, and fat cats make for an easy scapegoat for all these troubles, it takes some deft political jujitsu for a fabulously wealthy white male with impeccable hair to express a cogent message to the masses that will get people to buy that he's who we want in charge of our country. To add to Romney's level of difficulty, he is up against a leader who represents a once-in-a-generation combination of intelligence, sense of the moment, and communications skills.
But guess what, Mitt Romney? You're running for President of the Freakin' United States of America. It ain't an easy job. So we the people are right to expect that you can take on this messaging challenge. Explain to us a clear way forward that incorporates the inherently destructive and rejuvenating nature of modern capitalism, taps into the uniqueness that is our national narrative, and speaks to the worries and fears of a frayed generation. Stack up your view of the world and President Obama's, and decisively convince us that your way makes more economic sense, political sense, and common sense. Lose the pandering about job creation and give us the straight up truth about how an economic superpower can gird itself for prosperity and equity in a fast-moving and volatile era. I think I can speak for many others when I say: we are waiting for you to step up.
3.06.2012
Job Opening for Part-Time Administrative Assistant at Woodland Church in University City
Woodland Presbyterian Church in the University City neighborhood of Philadelphia is currently seeking a part-time administrative associate. Contact Lee Huang at lee.huang (at) gmail.com for a position description or to apply. Please feel free to circulate this information to anyone and everyone, and to recommend the position to anyone you feel would be qualified and interested. Thank you for your assistance.
Job Title: Administrative Assistant, Woodland Presbyterian Church (University City)
Hours per Week: 25 (hourly position, not salaried)
Start date: As soon as possible (Spring 2012)
General Overview
The Administrative Associate is a part-time member of the support staff of the church responsible for assisting the Pastor, the Session, the Treasurer, and the professional staff in their administrative responsibilities. He or she works under the general direction of the Session and under the immediate supervision of the Pastor.
Responsibilities/Duties:
· Prepare and publish church newsletters and mailings under the editorial supervision of the Pastor
· Prepare physical bulletins and content for virtual bulletin for worship services under the editorial supervision of the Pastor
· Provide clerical and secretarial support as requested by the Pastor and other staff members
· Serve as the church receptionist providing an appropriate response to members and anyone who calls or comes to the church
· Serve as the office manager ordering supplies and making sure that the office equipment is in good working order
· Facilitate the work of the Session as directed by the Pastor or the Clerk of Session.
· Assist the Treasurer in handling funds, keeping records, and making sure that all receipts and bills are processed and paid in a timely manner, including doing accounts payable related data entry (currently on QuickBooks)
· Keep church records and files orderly and up to date
· Keep the membership rolls as required by the Book of Order, under the supervision of the Clerk of Session
· Prepare membership and attendance reports for the Session
· Keep the membership database and publish an annual directory
Maintain the church calendar and be responsible for informing staff and members of scheduled events
· Take the lead in organizing the administrative aspects of the church’s annual Fall Retreat
· Be willing to take on other administrative tasks as time allows, ministry develops and as directed by the Pastor and/or session
· Assist with the sight and sound and worship leaders as needed and as directed by the pastor
· Hours include Monday through Wednesday 8:30 to 3:00 (1/2 hr for lunch), Thursday 8:30 to 12:00 and Friday 8:30 to 12
Skills Required:
Microsoft Office Suite (MS Word, Excel, PowerPoint, some Publisher and Access)
Professional and friendly phone manner
Superb organizational skills
Ability to work with a diverse demographic
Problem-solving skills
Commitment to working in a ministry setting
Initiative and ability to work independently
Ability to maintain confidentiality
Comfortable praying with those that may come into the church and be in need of prayer
Able to articulate a clear Christian witness
To Apply:
Send your resume and cover letter to Lee Huang, Chair of the Personnel Team, by email (lee.huang (at) gmail.com) or mail (42nd and Pine Streets, Philadelphia PA 19104).
Email is our preferred way for you to send in your resume and cover letter.
You may also send in any questions by email; we will not be able to answer any questions by phone or in person.
In addition to your resume please send in a one page “mock” newsletter that might be designed for our church
Job Title: Administrative Assistant, Woodland Presbyterian Church (University City)
Hours per Week: 25 (hourly position, not salaried)
Start date: As soon as possible (Spring 2012)
General Overview
The Administrative Associate is a part-time member of the support staff of the church responsible for assisting the Pastor, the Session, the Treasurer, and the professional staff in their administrative responsibilities. He or she works under the general direction of the Session and under the immediate supervision of the Pastor.
Responsibilities/Duties:
· Prepare and publish church newsletters and mailings under the editorial supervision of the Pastor
· Prepare physical bulletins and content for virtual bulletin for worship services under the editorial supervision of the Pastor
· Provide clerical and secretarial support as requested by the Pastor and other staff members
· Serve as the church receptionist providing an appropriate response to members and anyone who calls or comes to the church
· Serve as the office manager ordering supplies and making sure that the office equipment is in good working order
· Facilitate the work of the Session as directed by the Pastor or the Clerk of Session.
· Assist the Treasurer in handling funds, keeping records, and making sure that all receipts and bills are processed and paid in a timely manner, including doing accounts payable related data entry (currently on QuickBooks)
· Keep church records and files orderly and up to date
· Keep the membership rolls as required by the Book of Order, under the supervision of the Clerk of Session
· Prepare membership and attendance reports for the Session
· Keep the membership database and publish an annual directory
Maintain the church calendar and be responsible for informing staff and members of scheduled events
· Take the lead in organizing the administrative aspects of the church’s annual Fall Retreat
· Be willing to take on other administrative tasks as time allows, ministry develops and as directed by the Pastor and/or session
· Assist with the sight and sound and worship leaders as needed and as directed by the pastor
· Hours include Monday through Wednesday 8:30 to 3:00 (1/2 hr for lunch), Thursday 8:30 to 12:00 and Friday 8:30 to 12
Skills Required:
Microsoft Office Suite (MS Word, Excel, PowerPoint, some Publisher and Access)
Professional and friendly phone manner
Superb organizational skills
Ability to work with a diverse demographic
Problem-solving skills
Commitment to working in a ministry setting
Initiative and ability to work independently
Ability to maintain confidentiality
Comfortable praying with those that may come into the church and be in need of prayer
Able to articulate a clear Christian witness
To Apply:
Send your resume and cover letter to Lee Huang, Chair of the Personnel Team, by email (lee.huang (at) gmail.com) or mail (42nd and Pine Streets, Philadelphia PA 19104).
Email is our preferred way for you to send in your resume and cover letter.
You may also send in any questions by email; we will not be able to answer any questions by phone or in person.
In addition to your resume please send in a one page “mock” newsletter that might be designed for our church
3.05.2012
80,000 Hits
We celebrate another milestone here at Musings: 20,000 hits as of May
2009, 30,000 hits as of February 2010, 40,000 hits as of November 2010,
50,000 hits as of March 2011, 60,000 hits as of July 2011, 70,000 hits as of November 2011, and now 80,000 hits as of March 2012 since I put a counter on the site in
February 2005 (which was two years after I had launched this blog in
February 2003). (Counts do not include views at other sites, like
Facebook and Linkedin, where my posts also go.) Thanks for visiting,
and I hope you'll continue to stay engaged.
3.03.2012
Refis Through the Years
1. 2000 – Bought our house, with help from Penn’s Mortgage Incentive Program (cash for Penn employees who bought a house in the neighborhood). One of the best (luckiest) financial moves of my short life, as the house has more than tripled in price since then and we have locked ourselves into a coveted spot within the catchment area for Penn Alexander School. We put 25 percent down (sale price was high five figures) and went with a 15-year fixed rate loan at 7.2 percent for the rest.
2. 2002 – One of the stipulations of Penn’s program is that you are employed by the school, which Amy was at the time, being a nurse at HUP. If you leave Penn, they can no longer guarantee your mortgage, so you have to refinance. Fortunately, it’s a good time to refi. We choose a 5+1 variable rate loan that starts at 4.9 percent.
3. 2007 – Interest rates have crept up, so we get out of our variable rate loan now that the five-year period has expired, and jump into a fixed rate loan. I think this was a 10-year deal, somewhere in the mid 6’s.
4. 2009 – While the world is melting from overleveraging home equity, we join the party way late, pulling out money to pay for grad school and home renovations, and lock in at a lower rate, something like 4.6 percent. Because of our house’s significant price appreciation, and the fact that we bought so low, we’re way above water, so there’s no problem getting approved. Still, while we needed the money, we lament that we were awfully close to paying off the whole thing; imagine that, two people in their mid-thirties who didn't come from money and don't make a ton of money yet being all the way done paying for a whole house! But now we are back to being 15 years away from doing so.
5. 2012 – Insanely low interest rates, plus a no-fee program at our bank, induce us to go through the paperwork of refinancing. We score a 3.5 percent rate for a 15-year loan, and with no penalty for early repayment, we can make the same monthly payment amounts as before and be done with our mortgage well before 2027.
I’ve made more than enough blunders in the stock market to give back all the good I’ve gotten from our house. Still, I count myself quite fortunate to have bought what we bought, when we bought it, and to have stumbled into good timing regarding renovations, refinancing, and schools. Now, with my interest rate at 3.5 percent, I can’t possibly need to refi any time soon, right? (I give us 18 months.)
3.02.2012
Room to Love
If my life had a soundtrack, it would be "Flight of the Bumblebees." Between a demanding job, two small kids, church responsibilities, other civic engagements, personal administrative to-do's, tending to friendships and family relationships, and taking care of my body, mind, soul, and spirit, I find myself constantly flitting from one thing to the next. People call me a masterful multi-tasker, but I'm actually awful at doing more than one thing at a time. Rather, I rely on my scheduling prowess to jam multiple individual things into my waking hours, and then spend those waking hours frantically getting through one thing and moving on to the next.
Alas, all too often I have been too busy for something or someone that comes along that should otherwise trump my carefully laid plans. I may be seeking to honor God by packing my days with productive and edifying things, but not if I have disqualified myself from being available to Him to be deployed to a place or person of interest.
Busyness can be seen as a sign of importance: how many times have we heard or said, with puffed out chest and dismissive tone, "Sorry, I can't make that; I'm too busy." But God doesn't need us to be busy; he desires that we are available. It doesn't matter that I am good at scheduling and not so good at loving; God doesn't need us to be "good at" it, just to be willing to be used by Him to touch someone or do something.
Consider the famous Bible story of the Good Samaritan. The priest and the religious leader walk past the wounded assault victim, while the Samaritan not only stops and helps, but goes out of his way to make sure the victim is taken care of and pledges to pay even more in hotel charges should it be needed. The lesson of the story is about being a good neighbor, which is elevated as one of the two major to-do's (loving God being the other), in case we missed the significance of the lesson.
How many Good Samaritan opportunities have I foregone because of my busyness? Countless lost opportunities to participate in and be a vessel of the love of God. Would that I give God room to love.
Alas, all too often I have been too busy for something or someone that comes along that should otherwise trump my carefully laid plans. I may be seeking to honor God by packing my days with productive and edifying things, but not if I have disqualified myself from being available to Him to be deployed to a place or person of interest.
Busyness can be seen as a sign of importance: how many times have we heard or said, with puffed out chest and dismissive tone, "Sorry, I can't make that; I'm too busy." But God doesn't need us to be busy; he desires that we are available. It doesn't matter that I am good at scheduling and not so good at loving; God doesn't need us to be "good at" it, just to be willing to be used by Him to touch someone or do something.
Consider the famous Bible story of the Good Samaritan. The priest and the religious leader walk past the wounded assault victim, while the Samaritan not only stops and helps, but goes out of his way to make sure the victim is taken care of and pledges to pay even more in hotel charges should it be needed. The lesson of the story is about being a good neighbor, which is elevated as one of the two major to-do's (loving God being the other), in case we missed the significance of the lesson.
How many Good Samaritan opportunities have I foregone because of my busyness? Countless lost opportunities to participate in and be a vessel of the love of God. Would that I give God room to love.
3.01.2012
Huang Family Newsletter, February 2012

Amy and Lee slogged through a month of being sick, having lots to do at work, and juggling house projects (curtains for Amy, closet organization for Lee). We celebrated Jada's birthday twice: her friends came over to make Valentine's Day card, and then family members came over for Chinese and cake. Aaron and Jada finished up their swim classes at the Y; Jada will continue on with ballet at a nearby studio until May, while Aaron starts T-ball in April. Social activities included our annual trip to the Auto Show downtown, plus a couple of birthday parties in the neighborhood. Our church hired a new pastor and we got to know her, her husband, and her three children.
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